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V\u0161ichni chceme, aby na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b bylo chytr\u00e9, vzd\u011blan\u00e9, slu\u0161n\u00e9 a \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9. Ne\u017e ho p\u0159ivedeme, pokud se to poda\u0159\u00ed, k\u00a0tomuto c\u00edli, \u010dek\u00e1 n\u00e1s dlouh\u00e1 cesta. Na v\u00fdchov\u011b bychom m\u011bli pracovat u\u017e od \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku. To co se n\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t u mal\u00e9ho d\u011bcka roztomil\u00e9, v\u00a0pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt probl\u00e9m.Jist\u011b, mal\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti sem tam n\u011bco odpust\u00edme, ale m\u011bli bychom zv\u00e1\u017eit, kam a\u017e jsme zloben\u00ed sv\u00e9 ratolesti ochotni tolerovat. Ur\u010dete rozumn\u00e9 hranice, kter\u00e9 by m\u011blo d\u011bcko dodr\u017eovat. Rozhodn\u011b ho t\u00edm nemu\u010d\u00edte ani neomezujete. Spr\u00e1vn\u00e1 v\u00fdchova se v\u00e1m v\u00a0budoucnu pozitivn\u011b vr\u00e1t\u00ed. U\u010dte sv\u00e9ho potomka ohleduplnosti. M\u011bl by v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee vynucov\u00e1n\u00ed pozornosti rozhodn\u011b nikam nevede. N\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti si okam\u017eitou p\u0159\u00edze\u0148 cht\u011bj\u00ed doslova za mohutn\u00e9ho \u0159evu vydupat. Nenechte se vyv\u00e9st z\u00a0m\u00edry a rozhodn\u011b se nesna\u017ete okam\u017eit\u011b splnit jeho po\u017eadavky. Rad\u011bji mu vysv\u011btlete, \u017ee takov\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem ni\u010deho nedos\u00e1hne. Po\u017eadujete po d\u011bcku, aby si uklidilo hra\u010dky, obl\u00e9klo se nebo p\u0159i\u0161lo za v\u00e1mi? Mo\u017en\u00e1 d\u011bl\u00e1, \u017ee nesly\u0161\u00ed. Svou prosbu opakujete n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t dokola a st\u00e1le se nic ned\u011bje. Takov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed byste tolerovat nem\u011bli. Postupem \u010dasu se stane tradic\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b bude d\u011blat, \u017ee v\u00e1s nesly\u0161\u00ed a vy budete st\u00e1le jen \u010dekat. Jd\u011bte rad\u011bji za d\u011bckem, vysv\u011btlete mu, co po n\u011bm p\u0159esn\u011b chcete a trvejte na spln\u011bn\u00ed va\u0161eho po\u017eadavku. Kter\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b by nezkusilo lh\u00e1t. Ruku na srdce, zkusili jsme si to v\u0161ichni. Rozli\u0161it bychom, ale m\u011bli lhan\u00ed a vym\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed si.D\u011bti maj\u00ed bujnou fantazii a vym\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed si r\u00e1dy. Se lhan\u00edm to, ale nic spole\u010dn\u00e9ho nem\u00e1. Pokud d\u011bcko p\u0159i lhan\u00ed p\u0159istihnete, netrestejte ho, ale vysv\u011btlete mu, \u017ee v\u00edte, jak to doopravdy bylo. Poslali jste ho uklidit si hra\u010dky nebo vy\u010distit si zuby a tvrd\u00ed v\u00e1m, \u017ee m\u00e1 v\u0161e hotovo, ale nen\u00ed tomu tak? Pak d\u011bcko vra\u0165te zp\u011bt a \u00fakon ho nechte zopakovat. Mal\u00e9 d\u011bti jsou v\u011bt\u0161inou pravdomluvn\u00e9 a \u0159eknou to, co jim p\u0159ijde na jazyk. V\u011bt\u0161\u00ed d\u011bti, obvykle \u0161koln\u00edho v\u011bku, mohou lh\u00e1t ze strachu. Boj\u00ed se trestu za \u0161patnou zn\u00e1mku a podobn\u011b.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ur\u010dete d\u011btem hranice","item":"https:\/\/www.adares.cz\/urcete-detem-hranice\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]